I met my friend 2 years ago, her dd is in the same class as my DC at school and we just got talking more and more and gradually became friends.
We go shopping together sometimes, go into town together, go for coffees, take the kids bowling occasionally, we don't see each other ALL the time but quite alot.
Anyway I don't know what to make of the friendship anymore, if she's on her own she's fine, she'll wait for me, talk to me etc but if she's with anyone else its different.
In a morning she will usually wait for me whilst I take my youngest into school, this morning because she had got talking to someone else she said "hello" and that was it. Last week I saw her in the playground, she asked me what I was doing for the day and I said I was going to do my shopping at asda, she looked fed up and hinted and wanting to come so I asked her to come and she jumped at the chance as she hates being on her own...yesterday I was on my own and asked her what she was doing, she was with her other friend and said she was going shopping, she asked what I had planned and when I said nothing so far she said "oh, cya later anyway".
In a morning if she's on her own she will come over and stand with me for a chat whilst the kids go into school, if she see's anyone else she will go and stand with them.
It's not that I'm jealous and "want her all to myself" but I don't like being used and I feel like she only wants to know me when theres nobody else around. Getting a bit sick of it really.