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Men and porn

15 replies

DK2704 · 03/04/2019 17:03

First thing, I have no issue with my partner watching porn.

I was snooping on his history 🤦🏼‍♀️ Which mostly consists of trainers and porn. I found he had searched on pornhub his ex name and then two towns which she lived in.

Is that not weird? Am I right to be annoyed?

Like if it was on Facebook maybe fine but to search her name on a porn site! I also don’t think she has ever appeared in a porn movie or anything like that. I just hate the idea if he did find it he may have masturbated to her.

I don’t know what to do!!!

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LRTR · 03/04/2019 17:37

Have you tried clicking on the link yo saw to see if he found his ex?

DIZZYTIGGER87 · 03/04/2019 17:44

Maybe someone told him "I saw [ex] on [porn site]" and he wanted to know if it was true?

If the shoe was on the other foot I'd be too nosey not to look it up and find out if it's true? I wouldn't be interested in watching, but curiosity would drive me mad.

Superfragile · 03/04/2019 17:46

I'm with Dizzy

katy78 · 03/04/2019 17:46

I would be annoyed. I also have no issue with my partner watching porn.

HeyJude81 · 03/04/2019 17:50

If my DP searched for his ex on a porn site I’d presume it was because he was needing to vomit...

Catty I know! 😂

I’d be really pissed off in fairness but maybe like someone above said...someone told him they’d seen her on there and he was looking to see if it was true! I know I would if someone said my ex was on a porn site...!

Karigan195 · 03/04/2019 17:54

I would so be looking athBing a good laugh if I was told one of my ex’s was on a porn site. I bet it’s something like that

stacktherocks · 03/04/2019 17:56

If my DP searched for his ex on a porn site I’d presume it was because he was needing to vomit...

Well he fancied her enough to shag her at one point so that’s not so much catty as totally illogical 😂

I’d have to ask if I saw that. It’s so specific. Why would he think his ex might be on there? Must admit sadly my mind jumped to the possibility of revenge porn like he had posted her at some point, otherwise how would he know or even suspect she’d be on there? And if she was, surely she wouldn’t be under her real name and location?

I wouldn’t get mad but I wouldn’t be able to not ask outright what he had done that for.

catisbeingsick · 03/04/2019 17:59

Gross

Florescentadolescent · 03/04/2019 18:01

Maybe he revenge porned her

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DK2704 · 03/04/2019 18:05

They dated over 14 years ago so I doubt he has anything recorded. Plus he would never do that

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RiversDisguise · 03/04/2019 18:05

I also kinda suspected he might have uploaded revenge porn. It's too weird.

onetwofive · 03/04/2019 18:51

Sometimes things that have been searched for in other places come up in different search bars, I know this as I once went to search for something on a tablet and DH's, ahem, private viewing item was suggested when I started typing. So maybe yours actually have been an innocent Facebook stalk...

Crazyhairymary · 03/04/2019 20:15

If you have to search your partners history then you have problems anyway

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DK2704 · 03/04/2019 21:15

I don’t have to but sometimes I do. :)

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Sassy306 · 03/04/2019 22:45

If it was revenge porn he would have had an account, a username etc, even if he forgot those surely he would remember the name of the town from that time! Its more likely he has heard a rumour that she or someone else has uploaded content containing her

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