Fed up with partner

[Mooieminnie21]

Me and my partner have been together for 6 1/2 years now and have an 18 month old little boy but recently I just feel like I really don't like his company. He is quite a negative person and also seems to have the hump. We have been having some building work (which I have organised the lot) and he is just constantly chasing me up on things, have you done this have you done that. I just feel like since having her child it's highlighted how much I do and how little he does or appreciates. Has anyone had the same and got over? I just feel happier when it's me and my boy.

Have you told him how you feel?

Are you SAHM or are you both working? It's very easy, if one of you is working less hours/SAHP, to both get into a pattern of thinking that everything in the house is the responsibility of that person. Do you find you
are still working in the evenings when he is just relaxing? Then he doesn't know how to 'do things properly' because you always do it.

It doesn't sound as if DH is very happy either so you need to sit down together for a chat. You have to be very clear if you want/need help. You may feel he should see what needs doing but if he doesn't then either tell him or continue to carry the whole load yourself.