Hi apologies if this is the wrong place to post.
Had two interviews last week and amazingly was offered both jobs! I chose the one that felt the most friendly, the woman who interviewed me was very friendly and chatty. I've had a induction and it seems that decision has had its downfall already.
I am employed by a married couple who both run a business with two other employees. So including myself there are 5 staff.
I was alone with the owner woman during my induction and she spoke about her relationship with her husband and I felt really uncomfortable. Covered things like her husband 'not allowing her out' she manages to go out to a local place once a week for a couple of hours but time is limited and even then he gets grumpy with her. Punishes her by not speaking to her, if he absolutely needs to speak is very snappy. He once agreed when drunk she could go out of town with a family member out of town but when it came to it he was so angry about it he didn't speak to her for over a week. 'Punishes' her by not going to bed with her. She loves it when he isn't around (if he goes out) because things are a bit easier for her.
Now if this was anyone other then one half of my boss I would know what to say! I was a little shocked and taken back today so didn't really say anything. Any advice for me with how I could deal with this and ideally not get sacked before I've even started! I can only presume she will talk to me about this again given this was the second time I had met her and she shared this much so I would like to be mentally more prepared.