Just want to know if I’m being a psycho here!!
OH and I went to an event last month, his ex was there. His ex from 23 years ago. The mother of his child. Everything ended amicably no issues there. Found a message on his phone today when looking for something, she’d messaged him a couple of days after the event saying thank you for attending (was an event there DD was part of) he replied saying he had a great time, so proud of her etc and then said “you looked amazing as always” they haven’t been together in over 20 years so I don’t particularly have any worries, we live around 5 hours away, they only communicate via text and not really that much due to the DD being in her 20s now. Basically I’ve flipped! I wasn’t snooping before anyone jumps on me he’d asked me to look for something in the phone and on her message when I saw that. To me it’s unacceptable to tell another woman she looks “amazing”. I wouldn’t have been bothered if he said you looked well or something like that it’s jusy this amazing comment that has got my back up. Had it out with him, he said she’s the mother of his child he will always be kind to her etc etc and there’s absolutely nothing at all in it, he’s fully committed to me and I have absolutely zero to worry about. Am I wrong to be annoyed?? Please help because it’s driving me insane!!