I’m a member of a small club and we over see events in our area think birds.
An event came up and the head wasn’t keen so I and another decided it would be a good idea and said we’d love to do it
It was all agreed we’d do it and was a roaring success loads of praise or so we thought.
I have been in contact with the event organisers and this year we thought it be a good idea to do it again only to be told. THe head should of been informed first which wasn’t true. She kept saying it and I kept refuting this as I know it’s a lie.
She wouldn’t back done at all over this and I was getting flustered thinking I was wrong but I rechecked all my notes and I was to be contacted not the head.
Also she had sly digs at me covertly and you think did I hear right and then she changes it completely. I did a design and she said someone complained but wouldn’t say who it was and if it’s anonymous we don’t give it credibility but she made one I was in the wrong.
Others members side with her too which I find really strange as I’m looking at my notes going no you didn’t say that you said this only to be told no I didn't you misheard.
At times I think I’m going mad as she can be so nice at times too
my point is how do I cope can I actually go in and say stop lying. I mentally go in with that needs to stop but I feel 12 again when in her company sadly and need out of that mind set.
I’m at the point of resigning but love what we do with all these events.