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Advice needed.

3 replies

JGreenhoff8 · 31/03/2019 12:15

Hi all,

There's this girl that I met through work on my college course who I like (a lot!). We exchanged numbers (I asked her and she replied with "I'll give you my personal number rather than my works number" (she has two phones as part of her job). One lunchtime she voluntarily had lunch with me - we were both going out and the weather was awful so I went in to get food at the college and she followed me back in - she had already bought lunch with her and sat downstairs with me. I never asked her to, it just happened.

We were chatting and she was telling me about her new place that she moved into and during that conversation, she said "well, if you ever come round..." Am i reading too much into it that this might be a good sign?

We text each other a bit during the course etc during February (bit of flirting etc) but that's about it. This week I moved jobs and I now work on the same floor as her (completely by chance). On my first day there she saw me in the kitchen and started up a conversation about the course (and other things etc) and finished with "its good to see you".

Am I reading too much into all this? She's currently single.

Thanks for any help/advice.

OP posts:
notsosureaboutthatthough · 31/03/2019 12:18

Well she obviously likes you!

spanishwife · 31/03/2019 12:21

Sounds like it's time to suggest meeting up outside of your workplace! Ask her out on a casual meet up and see how it goes!

Moralitym1n1 · 31/03/2019 12:23

No, she seems to be open to at least a friendship, possibly a romance; the only way you'll know is if you wait until she asks you along to something, if if you ask her along to something.

As an alternative to asking her out on s 'date', just plan to do something (on your own or with friends) and ask her along. That way you're doing it anyway, whether she comes or not, and there's no pressure on you to do the whole 'asking out' thing. It's likely of she likes you shell join you and you can progress from there.

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