How do I persuade my DH to get some work life balance? We have a one year old who he barely sees and DH is frazzled/distracted when he does spend time with him. Unsurprisingly, DS now only wants mummy which makes it worse. I work as well but I’m beginning to wonder how sustainable it is. He leaves for work at 5am so I do mornings. He then returns at 7pm to do the last bit of bedtime for 15 minutes before going back to do work again. He works pretty much all weekend and when he is “playing” with DS he is often doing emails or staring into space - he only seems to start interacting when he hears me coming. I am worried for his relationship with DS but is it too early to start panicking? The thing that really upset me tonight is that I’m ill and had to go and lie down at 5pm. Soon afterwards I hear DH getting DS ready for bed 90 minutes early seemingly so he can go back to his work again. Please tell me if I am overreacting. It is just making me sad (and exhausted to have no help around the house) but I don’t want to nag him to enjoy spending time with his son. He would say he does but his actions speak differently.