How do I make him leave

[flabbymommy]

My husband and I have been together for 9 years married for 4. I have two children from before and we have a little one together. I gave up work to stay at home with our youngest. I had a flat of my own

I’m a bit confused re housing, you say it’s a council flat so does this mean it’s rented? Or do you have a mortgage on it?
If it’s tented and he isn’t in the tenancy then yes actually legally married or not you can force him to leave, if he is a joint tenant then you’d have to ask the council to remove him and if your are co-owners in a mortgage then he has 50/50 rights to the property and living there.

I think you need to ring womens aid or go to the CAB for advice. You need to divorce him as well as getting him out. You need to find out about benefits regarding when you get him out as well.

I'd get the locks changed when hes at work and then refuse to let him in. If you are separated the benefits will have to support you surely?

You need to ring the council on Monday and find out exactly who's name and where you stand. From what I'm reading your the sole tenant with him being named as living there so technically you should be able to make him leave but you need to confirm this with your housing officer.

Snowball we only have the flat we live in. He had his own place but mine was bigger so he moved in with me. We rent but were saving for a deposit.
My other children's dad doesn't pay child support atm because he we share custody 50/50 and he pays for big costs like school uniform, school trips, after school clubs ect. He also covers the family holiday every year.