Hi,
This is going to be a weird question but i am really confused and hurt By this and I am looking for other opinions on it please.
My partner and I (we are both women) have sex around once a fortnight due to some minor health conditions (hers) and that’s how often we have settled into our current sex routine. It used to be all the time but it wore her out.
About theee weeks ago, I was unwell and off my feet for a week or so and she was very helpful, taking time off work etc. Anyway I am now better and initiated sex last week to which she said she hadn’t thought about it over the last few weeks because she was so worried about me. She said she could easily go another few weeks without it as it had been the last thing on her mind While I was undergoing tests etc. We didn’t have sex
Anyway, cut to the point, last night I said to her out of curiosity “if we hadn’t had sex for a while, would you touch yourself or save yourself for me?”
She said, “it depends; I touched myself once when you were Ill a few weeks ago as you were laid up in pain so I couldn’t ask you. But I wouldn’t usually touch myself”
This really hurt and angered me. She did this while I was downstairs and we haven’t had sex since.
She seemed so worried about me, so how could she be so horny to touch herself upstairs while I was downstairs if she was that worried about me ? I’m trying to be rational about it but it is hurting me. We’re also always together, I just have been downstairs for about half an hour without her at the most.
Opinions please
Thanks