We had a massive fall out with the other halfs family. We haven't spoken to them in months and in that time the other halfs changed for the better, he became independent and started having more fun. He used to be very reliant on his family, would never make a decision without their input. I didn't realise how bad and submissive he is with them until we recently got back in touch with them. All of a sudden hes cancelled our usual weekend plan of drinks with friends because he wants to go and see his mum and dad the following evening. We don't have hangovers from it so whats the issue? Why is he suddenly growing down again? Like going for drinks with friends doesn't suit who his family are? They aren't coming with us! I just dont want to go back to him being a kid again i guess