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Hormonal mess :/

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Cherim90 · 28/03/2019 21:40

My hormones are all over the place I have a 6 year old little girl who almost every day is a challenge I love her to bits ofcourse but its stressful, work is stressful and over the past few weeks I've found showing my partner attention tiring, we haven't had sex in over 2 weeks purely as I just don't feel like it! I want to be with him but since falling pregnant Ive had zero desire to have sex yet before we were doing it all the time. My moods are up and down and I've slowly become more and more fed up and tired and pretty horrible to him 😢 We are just about to move in with each other next Friday and I feel like I've fucked it up as he's walked out. After me telling him to leave a million times in anger after we've argued and he's not just gave me peace and quiet to calm down as I asked, and he's said he's not sure what to do about the moving thing now.... what have I done I'm sat here a bubbling pregnant mess..... sorry I sound pathetic right now and probs laugh at myself in the morning! I just feel like an awful person who's not in control of her emotions! Don't know why I'm posting! Just needed to talk to someone and if I ask my family they will judge or hold it against us in the future

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Middlrm · 28/03/2019 21:44

You nailed a lot of the problem your pregnant you are juggling a lot .. with pregnancy comes exhaustion... like I have the flu exhaustion your going to be off sec and cranky ....

Middlrm · 28/03/2019 21:46

Sex not sec ...
Oh and your moving ... that’s a lot

Your partner will he stressed with impending fatherhood moving and a hormonal partner ... I am sure you are both blowing off steam

Middlrm · 28/03/2019 21:49

How far along are you? And congratulations by the way!

Let you partner cool down too... you sound like you need a bit of help with juggling of it all can anyone take dd for a night before the move so you and partner can take time for non exhausted chat ( after you have a big nap ) and meal 🥘. Just focus on each other and why you love each other and ignore day to day stress for a few hours

And don’t feel bad if arc is off the table it could be exhaustion but some women go off sex when pregnant I know I did x

Cherim90 · 29/03/2019 07:38

Thanks for replying I did read your messages last night and Ive arranged for a family member to have my daughter for a sleepover tonight and my partner is at his mums for the weekend so we can both chill out for a bit, as for the move I'll sort something for that too as you're right it's probably all a bit much for us both and need to cut ourselves some slack lol xx thanks again

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