Sorry for the rant it does have a point I swear!
For a bit of background me and my fiance have been together 7 years and are expecting our first child in July, neither of us are currently working, I'm on disability and my partner left his job a year ago due to sciatica as it was a physically demanding job, so we have been making do month to month on benefits and savings, when we found out we were expecting (in late oct) partner was very enthusiastic about looking for work and i started an at home job (pays awful but that's not the point).
he's not been terribly successful at looking for a job, the majority of jobs he's applied for I've had to do on his behalf, however this week he came home really enthusiastic about a job opportunity he'd found and he knew someone who worked there who could guarantee an interview, he got a phonecall yesterday evening stating he had an interview today at 4pm, i was obviously over-joyed as this is his first interview since he started looking and it was actually a job he could enjoy and involved minimal physical labour for his back.
being pregnant i was exhausted and took myself off to bed at 10pm and told him not to stay up too late as he had a big day, when i woke up this morning I've discovered that he didn't go to bed until 6am and has downed an entire half bottle of disaronno , and he's currently in the bathroom being sick.
Am i wrong to be furious? i haven't been this angry in such a long time and i really don't know how to approach the situation, i feel like he's sabotaging us, this job would be great for our family especially seeing as we're currently trying to pay off debt that he was hiding from me (but that's another issue) i know i don't work a proper job so i feel like i can't be too critical but this has really brought me down. what would you do in this situation?