I made a cake for my colleagues yesterday and when I got home I told my husband about it. He was really annoyed and made a fuss saying I haven't made him a cake in months and that why would I make cake for a part time job. Anyway he then said
don't bother making him a cake again he would buy his own tin and get mr Kipling's instead. Tonight I made him a beautiful cream Victoria sponge and brought it to him and said for you. He looked at me coldly and said what did I say yesterday. I stared at him in disbelief, and said thank you would do. I was so upset that I left it on the side and went out. I feel like he has totally checked out of our relationship obviously not just about cake.
Yesterday we rowed because the house was cold and I asked if we were not having fires anymore. He said I could have lit one which I would have done only I broke the axe trying to cut kindling last week. He just leaves me to do it when I have no clue. I feel so uncared for. I do everything for him and our children.
He went talk to me about things and I feel things are just getting worse.