Struggling with anniversary in new relationship (marriage failed due to DP cheating)

[Wastedyear]

I am now divorced after finding out about an affair (that May have been going on for my entire marriage/relationship of 15 years)

New relationship is really good. But I’m struggling with trusting and also I question my judgement, even though DP gives me no reason to at all, because of the past I am super cautious.

We have an anniversary coming up and I feel really weird about it. Like I don’t want to celebrate it in case it all turns to shit or something. Is this weird (please be kind!)

Can understand you have trust issues after such a betrayal but try not to let your ex's bad behaviour ruin your new relationship. I was cheated on too after a long marriage but I do believe most men are, thankfully, not like our Ex.

Look forward and be be kind to yourself, it sounds like you may have found a good one. You don't have to rush anything, enjoy dating and the trust will rebuild in time.