I've been seeing this guy for a couple months now, we've been on a few dates and met up for a chat a fair few times too. He's really nice and it's was going really well at first but lately there's a few things that have put me off a bit. For one he complains about his ex...a lot. And I understand, I'm not the biggest fan of my ex either but it's a bit odd the amount he brings her up. Then he's started talking about us meeting each other's DC, I explained that it was much too soon to thinking about that, we aren't even properly together yet. Now today he's messaged me "i want to be clear about this, what are we? What do you want from this? A relationship? Maybe even marriage, children together in the future?" I'm really confused by this. Why is he thinking about marriage and children at the very beginning of a relationship? Especially as I'm going through the process of a divorce right now and I'm not really looking to have anymore children. I'm happy with how things have been between us but he seems to want something much more serious