He is just so bloody frustrating. He’s normally at work mon-fri but he’s here for the next couple of days and he is driving me completely potty. He is just completely incapable at seeing what needs doing in a situation. I do everything. Absolutely bloody everything.
I went to have a shower this morning and asked if he could get dc’s dressed which he agreed to. I’m putting some bits away before I get in the shower and no sign of him getting them ready. I ask him again as we’ll end up late for the school run. Dh replies he asked but they said no. So, I tell dc’s to go up with their dad and get dressed. Have my shower and they’re still in their bedroom naked and playing Lego. I ask dh why they’re not dressed. He didn’t know where they’re clothes were. I show him and get myself dressed. I come out to see dc1 wearing dc2’s uniform and vice versa. They think it’s hilarious, dh genuinely not noticed (dc’s are 3yo and 7yo so big difference in sizes). I change them and take them to school.
Get back from school and dh is just sat on dc’s bed, exactly where I left him, looking at FB on his phone. He won’t do anything at all for dc’s or me. All he does as ‘housework’ is once a fortnight he will spend an entire day mowing the lawn. He comes on days out with us and doesn’t interact at all. He’s not moody or anything. He’s just completely disinterested. I don’t understand it.