My exH has married the OW - and I don't care

[RomanticFatigue]

I'm surprised because I don't feel a thing.

I was broken when I found out he was cheating on me. I threw him out, didn't do the pick me dance and that dented his fragile ego and he threw me to the wolves. I was devastated at what did to me and it's taken a good couple of years to get myself back on track. A big stumbling block was when I found out the OW was pregnant - it sent me straight back to therapy. And I cried a lot when his daughter was born.

So, I've just opened a message from a mutual friend to say they have got married. And I honestly don't feel anything. For him anyway. For me, I feel elated. I'm finally free of him and the past. I just wanted to post this as a mark of the pompoms I'm waving for myself. I got there. Go me.

[PyongyangKipperbang]

Well she can hardly kick off at him can she? By being complicit in his cheating on you she has told him that she is ok with him cheating on his wife. That she is the wife now makes no difference, she must still be ok with it, right?!

[RomanticFatigue]

Pyong, he told me about it before our divorce went through. He showed his true colours to me during that period as he didn't need to be anything to me. It was awful to find out what he was really like. He doesn't actually give a shit about her, she just fuels his ego. She thinks she is special because he left his wife for her. She's just a blow up doll to him. She's a silly girl and he's a horrible horrible man. And I am the lucky one to be free

[PyongyangKipperbang]

I couldnt agree more!

Sad thing is that one day she will grow up and realise just what he stole from her. I dont condone what she did in any way but she sounds like she fell hook line and sinker for the bullshit.

Like you say, silly little girl.

[MrsMozartMkII]

Yay the happy freedom!