Probably clutching at straws here but has anyone been in this situation?
I met someone a month ago, we four times, all at his instigation. shortly after he was taking exams (he's late thirties but it is part of a management course he is doing). he called me most nights, long chats.
it has been 3 weeks now so i text asking if he did actually want to meet and offering to go over to his one eve if he is busy and doesn't want to drive etc. he read the message this morning and hasn't replied. i know his last exam in next Friday and he has one each day next week so he's going to be busy. but why no reply? it seems strange after his instigation of calls etc.
before any conclusions are jumped to, he's definitely single as the fourth date i went back to his to (just) watch a film. i did a bit of poking around the bathroom to be sure!!!
i cant see that ive done anything wrong by asking if he does see us meeting soon, but maybe i have? im new to dating and haven't been interested in anyone else ive met so not sure how to read it. i know the bottom line is if he cared he would reply. but have i done something wrong?! im thinking maybe he is thinking i should know we would meet after his exams and ive made too much of it by suggesting going over?
probably need to just ignore it and move on but after so many nice calls and lovely dates im quite confused.