Hello everyone, I need some advice
I recently took the plunge and joined a relatively good online dating site. I have not been on a date for about 5 years. I am a very together, pretty but slightly older woman with her own home and business. I have met a man, who was charming and very understanding. Within 3 days of writing he wanted to go offsite, kept saying we had to hurry as he was going on holiday in a week. I was pretty taken with him as he was warm, and friendly on the site and seemed nice. He had mixed pictures of him scuba diving some head shots and one with bare head and shoulders (which was a slight red flag). Instantly, we exchanged private emails he kept pushing like crazy for my phone number, calling me hunni (which I didn't like), hardly ever addressed me by my first name although I used his. I have tried to check him out and he seems to be in business like he said. But he keeps saying he wishes he could give me a hug, alluding to waking up with me and suchlike. I am very sensible, I love being warm and tactile, but we have only been in contact for a week and I feel uneasy. I don't like to be too forward with someone I don't know either. Oh and I wanted to meet for coffee but he keeps suggesting dinner. I would rather have a short meet first time in daylight. We are meeting at a cosy local hotel this coming tuesday.
I don't know why I feel uncomfortable. I have had other contacts and not felt uneasy. Any tips. I would much prefer to back out now. There are plenty of fish in the sea I know. I feel this man's approach might not be my thing. Thanks so much