Hi my wife is telling our friends family I’m going mad, but to my face she says she understands why I’m worried but that I am wrong about the reasons for recent changes in actions. Firstly I agree that these things on there own is nothing but there’s so many I just can’t except the awnser here goes
FIND ADDRESS WRITEN ON FOLDED UP PAPER WITH NO NAME AND NO HOUSE NUMBER IN RANDOM PLACE
*STARTED COMING HOME ALOT LATE FROM WORK AND WONT AWNSER BUT TXT STRAIGHT BACK ENDLESSLY
*REALY DRESSING UP FOR WORK SHE IS SECONDARY SCHOOL TEACHER AND WORE A FULL LENGH ZIP DRESS WITH NO STRAPS
*DIDNT CARE ABOUT HAVING A PHONE AND NOW IT WONT LEAVE HER HAND IF SHE REALISES SHE HASNT PICKED IT UP TO CHANGE OUR DAUGHTER SHE AWILL GO BACK FOR IT BEFORE CHANGING
*STARTED SLEEPING ON SOFA OFTEN WHEN IT DIDNT HAPPEN once FOR THE FIRST 15 YEARS
*I CAME HOME AND SHE WAS IN SOME VERY NICE NIGHT WEAR AND LOOKED AMAZING I ASKED HER TO KEEP IT ON BECAUSE SHE LOOKED GOOD SHE TOOK IT STRAIGHT OFF I NEVER SAW IT AGAIN UNTILL 6 MONTHS LATER WHEN SHE WAS PUTTING IN WASH
*SPENDING LOTS OF MONEY AND HAS NO IDEA WHAT SHE DID WITH IT
*CAR MILES NOWHERE NEAR ADDING UO TO WHAT SHE SAYS SHES DOING
Untill all this we have had a good relationship we are early to mid 30,s been together for 18 years we have are problems like anyone we have to kids together our youngest is nearly 3 and we have gone through the worry of not noting if she has some kind of disability or to what extent but she’s such a happy child so will take what comes, but that has put a mental strain on my wife and my wife also has very rare but sever anxiety attacks to the extend she was convinced she way img October through till Xmas , but she has come out of that great and in some ways she’s better than ever, because she was ill we stopped being intimate but after she got better we started getting on realy well but hadn’t become intimate so I brought it up and it seems to have pushed her away and then since these things have happened I’ve starting questioning to the point it’s driving us crazy but she just doesn’t try to explain , I started going out alot last year with her brother till all hours to the point I was told if I kept it up I would push her to the point of no return so I stoped and then all she does when we stay in and put something on she just picks phone/I pad up till she falls asleep. I just want her to tell me something if I did push her to far can she just say so we can move on, in my head it must be something even if it’s just a group of friends male/female I just don’t know I have moved out as I can’t get it out my to the point she will end up hating me,one minute she says I’m mad the next she says she understands why I would be questioning I am quite low at the moment and got myself in a rut but I just feel I need her help me get out of it but she’s making it worse at best it is all just random coincidences that she is messing my all ready fragile brain, my mum had an affair and left when I was 11 the same age as my wife now, and my kids, I am terrified of ending it for good in case I am wrong but at the same time I know if something isn’t said I will resent her and become horrible, what you all think if this was happening to your selves she is saying doesn’t want us to break up but I havnt been in the home for 3days and not one message saying she loves me I think I should take the hint SHE HAS JUST CHANGEDCSO MUCH