So I'm currently 13 weeks pregnant and my libido has returned with a kick. My partner however wouldn't even know It had gone. So years ago when we first got together the sex was fine and the frequency was fine. Over the last year it has slowed down a lot and recently has been almost non existent. My partner is one of the horniest people I have ever met but still I pretty much have to initiate any sort of sex and most of the time I am turned away. He then moans when I just sleep in the evenings (exhausted from pregnancy) saying that if i was actually awake sometimes then he would be able to get some. The sex itself is just dull like it's always just me putting in all the effort and doing all the work while he just lies there. He is well aware that he lasts less than a minute but makes no effort to please me at all. We have spoke about these things so many times and he just brushes me off and says it shouldn't matter. Well to me it does matter. Not only does it bother me that the sex is just nonexistent or centred around me but I know it's not that he is not horny because he goes and gets himself off every night. I just don't know what to do. I don't feel like it's enough of a reason to leave him but it upsets me and makes me feel like I'm not worth it.