My partner well if we can call him that but that is a different story for another time. Was absent from my son life as he was always in and out of prison. I was 16 when I fell pregnant just 17 when I gave birth. Anyway my son is now 20 and his relationship with his father is not the best. He recently was finished up from work and has been lazy in finding a new job. He has now which is great, he is the complete opposite to his father and is a really good kid never brings trouble well mannered and people often comment on meeting him what a good job I have done raising him. Past couple of years his dad has been very critical of how I have raised him saying he is lazy and selfish and it’s my fault as in was the one who did the job of raising him. He blames me for everything he does that he don’t agree with as well as everything else that goes wrong he is always telling me how bad a person I am and am a bad mum to him and our 4 year old daughter. Does he hate me I don’t know any advise