Firstly I am very bad at understanding people, I just can't do it. I have no one to ask, because it's about one of my 2 friends and the other is her ex girlfriend.
I found out today that someone I had thought was a close friend (known her 10 years; friend,then SIL, then just friend again after my marriage to her brother ended. I'd known her longer than him) was moving house today, she didn't say where, just dropped off a a bike she had promised DD (DD is also her niece) She did mention a month or so ago that she was thinking of moving. She lived a road away from me until today.
Last year we saw each other a few times a week normally. After her breakup with another friend of mine (who I'd known 14 years) things seemed very different, but when we did see each other it was fine. When my boyfriend died last November she was supportive towards me.
But if she moved without mentioning it, she probably doesn't want to keep the friendship going, right? I have problems around abandonment and I honestly can't tell.