a reason for having an affair

[kkkazza]

My husbands reason for having an affair was perveted ,dirty thoughts in his head.Do you think this could be a possibility and when i caught him at it and he ended the affair like magic the dirty thoughts went away.Do you think this is likely because im having trouble believing any of it.

Don't be sorry it's ok i think it to.

kkk - have you thought about doing relate or counselling - just you, to get your head straight about all this. Just imagine the advice you would give a friend in your position....

Yeah im on the waiting list for relate. Dont know how long i will have to wait. I have given advice to people who have been in a simular position to me before but now im there i just can't seem to take any of my own advice. I always though that i would never put up with a cheat. That's another one of the reason's im finding all this hard to deal with, because im going against everything i believe in.

Also sorry if im going on, i never saw it coming we have been through so much together. I was pregnant with my son at 16 and that wasn't easy, he's now 13. and then my eldest daughter had terrible fit's when she was a baby and we were in and out of hospital with her. We have really been some ruff times together i honestly thought nothing would come between us.