All of a sudden I see my relationship for what it is with DH.
There has always been emotional abuse, I've just always made excuses, over 10 yrs and 3 children later, I see it and I know it won't get better, that it can't, because this is the way my husband was raised and it's part of who he is.
I also don't want my children to grow up being him.
So how do I leave? They adore him, they don't have the clarity that I do. They see moody daddy and just think it's normal, how can I turn their world upside down?
This is so hard