He’s walked out again

[Helpme5367]

So as the title states he’s walked out again. Basically as long as I’m a good stepford wife he’s happy. If I dare to raise objections to anything that’s it. I’ve been ill the past two days and have work tomorrow. 4 children to take care of and terrible anxiety and he does not give two fucks. I know where he is as he’s on find my friends and I feel like dumping all his clothes where he is parked up!
Rant over 😊

So how long do you want to keep living like this?

Do it thrn. You're probably better off without him.

I don’t I’m so angry that he thinks he can treat us like this

Lock the door and go to bed. Don't indulge his tantrum.

Alun I can’t sleep

Don’t let him back! His mantrums are bloody pathetic! stropping off because he can’t get his own way. How bloody unattractive, yuck! Dump dump dump.

Really - I want to go and shout at him

Fair enough but get into bed anyway and rest. Listen to the radio or a podcast. Don't sit downstairs with the lights on waiting.

Are you both mutually co dependent ?

Because if not I would have kicked him out by now/or moved out.

I will, thanks for the advice 😊

He knows he can treat you like shit. You enable it. Been there done it. Left

He can't be relied upon as a lifepartner then, can he?

Who does he stay with? Since they're fine to give a roof to an utter man-child then they can keep him there permanently, surely

I couldn't be doing with someone like this. No man is worth it.

If I were you I'd relax my mind, go to bed and don't respond to him at all when he returns.

He leaves you as he has somewhere to go. & One day he may go permanently. He's showing you he can go off whenever he likes.

The cheek of him.

Breev - probably I have absolutely no family