Okay...here goes...first time posting here.
So things have been strained between myself and my partner for a little while. I’ve spoken to him a few time about lack of affection, which in the beginning was constant.
So becoming paranoid I’ve been checking his phone (I know it’s wrong) I was hoping it would put my mind at rest. First of all every time I’m at work he’s looking at porn (fine) bit of a gut lunch when he’s not coming near me but I could get over that.
Then about a couple of weeks/ a month ago I noticed 2 dating sites had been visited. I bit my tongue thinking maybe it was a pop up from the porn sites, I know the chances of that are slim considering there was 2 different sites but I talked myself down.
Fast forward to today...yet another dating site, this time I ventured further. Discover there’s a profile, logged in, no picture.
Absolutely lost my shit. He of course is denying everything. Saying someone is clearly using his email and then turning it around to I should trust him, why am I going through his phone, dragging up arguements we had 6 months into our relationship. We’ve now been together 4 years and have a child together.
So obviously I’ve signed upto this dating site and found him, the minimal info that is there is all an exact match to him. But no photo.
Am I being a lunatic? Shall I trust him? Am I in the wrong here?
HELP please