What do I do? Going crazy

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I have liked someone for over a year now.
They have no idea I like them,I've never even so much as hinted.
I think they liked me in the past (I got vibes etc )
When she gets with other people I'm so jealous yet she has no clue I even fancy her.
Do I spend another year like this or get the balls to tell her I like her?

Your clearly around this person enough to know what they are doing so you need to bite the bullet and tell them. You’ll end up going crazy otherwise 😊

Why don't you just ask her out?

I've never asked anyone out in my life.
The thought of saying do you fancy a drink sometime terrifies me

If you don't ask you'll never know. What's the worst that can happen? If she says no then you can move on but at least you'll know.

Rather than just come out and ask, can you instigate some flirty chatting/texting to see if that starts things?

The thought of saying do you fancy a drink sometime terrifies me

If you can't face doing it in person, could you do it by text?

This thread feels very familiar.

Just ask her. Really. Start with "Hi". Hi is a good start.

Look, what do you have to lose? At the moment you are stuck in unrequited love and it sucks. If you ask and she says no you can grieve for those feelings and find someone else and if she says yes you got what you wanted. Living in a perpetual state of uncertainry is pointless. The road is paved with flat squirrels who failed to make a decision.

Gird your loins and ask her to go for a drink.