Should I be doing all the chasing ?

[Doideservethis1234]

Been with my partner for a few years now and we went through a tough patch months ago but we stayed together after infidelity on their part. Things are good, but I seem to be the one who does all the chasing making nice comments and generally trying to be the best I can be with what seems little effort from my partners side

My OH isn’t one for all the lovey dovey romantic stuff and it hurts when it’s not reciprocated back. I should know what my OH half is like but I still find myself setting myself up for a fall by generally trying too hard maybe ?

Is it possible to love some one too much ??

Maybe I am who knows ? I always said that I wouldn’t stay with a cheat but when you are in the circumstance it is different ! Thank you all for your comments, it’s good to get other peoples take on what’s going on.

It’s a shame these things happen and saddening to see so many struggling on this site :-(

You are doing all the kind gestures/extra loving to try and SHOW him what you want him to do for you. It's so easily done but you don't realise you're doing it subconsciously to try and hint to him what you want in return.

He's not offering you what you want. It's hard to walk away but you need to visualise a loving and respectful relationship where there is no cheating and BELIEVE you can get that. You are wasting your time with this one.