After everything that’s happened my horrible ex finally moved out today. It’s been since July that I found out about his 2nd affair and he’s been carrying it on whilst living in our 2 bedroom flat. We couldn’t sell because of the Brexit market so we took it off and I said I’d keep it on and he can rent till we figure out what we’re doing financially.
He then did nothing until I went full banshee on him and finally he found somewhere to go, saying I am awful and he was desperate to leave me.
I’ve been realising over the past year how emotionally abusive he is and it’s going to take me a bit of time to process it.
If we’d no DD I would have run off into the sunset but I probably would be about to make the same mistake again with a different guy. At least now I have full insight into how men like him behave and what I need to avoid in future.
Anyway, that’s all in the distant future. For now I am going to breathe and tidy my house and try to find out who I actually am.
Thank you to everyone here who’s supported me and helped me recognise what kind of person he is and ultimately gave me the knowledge I needed to get away from him.