I'm waiting for the marriage to improve... since having a child, it's awful. All we do is bicker. He constantly calls me a 'twat' for silly things, eg. forgetting to hang a clean wash out.
He's constantly exasperated with me, trying to get him to watch his language around DC, I try to tread carefully about reminding during a sweary outburst, but I usually get a 'yes, yes, YES! I know!' Or 'shut up!' I always get an apology afterwards. But I'm really tired of it.
It never use to be like this, he never spoke to me like this before, it feels like the relationship is just sinking deeper, and maybe there is no way it will improve.
No sex, it was a problem before DC, but now worse. I have quite a high sex drive, so this does bother me more than him. No real time spent together actually, any alone time we have he's either playing his games or watching his shows. (Use to be our shows, but he's too impatient to wait for me settling DC, so I don't watch anymore) the other day he put his headphones in and watched netflix as we sat down to dinner. I cried at the table.
I'm not getting anything from the relationship anymore. I have a roommate and financial security. That's it.
But I just wondered if anyone had been here, and it had got better? It's coming up on 2 years, and I don't know if I can take another.