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He's played me like a goodun hasn't he?

27 replies

LLCK · 17/03/2019 12:35

Long story short. I'm trying to separate from my husband and I've realised a few things
we worked together and were friends. We used to text each other and his wife then found out and kicked off. Nothing was going on at all. When this all kicked off he told me and other colleagues his wife had been cheating and hed punched the fella as his hand was bruised. He told others that she trapped his hand in the door.

Anyway they divorced and a year later we started going out. We found he couldn't get credit as apparently she'd stopped paying the mortgage on their house after her left. Therefore I had to put a huge deposit down on a house and it's in my sole name.
He's since had letters 're. an unpaid sky and gym membership. He swears he's never had either.

I've realised all the texts etc between him and his ex wife whilst they were sorting out the divorce and their house not once was her adultery or not paying the mortgage mentioned. It didn't happen did it?

OP posts:
Singlenotsingle · 17/03/2019 19:11

You would have just been able to kick him out without a penny if you weren't married.

Foxmuffin · 17/03/2019 19:16

I had an ex that said every ex of his had cheated on him. He was extremely possessive. I thought he was just really unfortunate until I left him and he told people I’d cheated on him. He was an habitual liar. He’d even lie when the truth was just as acceptable. Was really strange.

These people are always victims and he’ll go on to do the same to someone else. Cut your losses!

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