Haven't heard from him today. I'm on edge...

[minieggheaven]

Recently left my EA exP. He's been harassing me over text message, wanting to see our child and threatening to turn up at my house. He's very angry and aggressive. Short fuse and very impulsive. Up until a week ago I was facilitating contact but I've been advised not to due to his behaviour. Yesterday he was hurling abuse at me. He has been all week. Yesterday he threatened to turn up at the house. He never did. Now I haven't heard from him for the first day in 5 weeks and I'm feeling on edge. Had anyone else felt similar? I can't relax and feel sick to my stomach. Not sure what I'm asking for. Company maybe... it's all so hard.

why are you still communicating with him? you've left him....yet say he was hurling abuse at you....how is he doing this?,how is he threatening to turn up at your house?

Block his number. Give him an email address (register a new one) that he can use and tell him you'll check it once a week. Alternatively just block him altogether if he doesn't have to see your child.

It IS hard but the sooner you take control and block avenues of handy contact for him, the better you'll feel. You won't be on edge because he cannot contact you and you'll know this

If he turns up and is aggressive then it's time to call the police. Also consider a Ring2 doorbell as it is that extra layer of security

If you continue as you are - giving him nice and unfettered access left right and centre, you will never be able to move forward

Don't let one man have this power over you. You're more than this, right?