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Advice?

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FloEve48 · 14/03/2019 23:06

Iv never posted on here before but I need someone to tell me if I’m being unreasonable.
It’s terrible but our (me & DH) friend passed away. We are also friends with his wife so have obviously been supporting her during this difficult time however she seems to be getting a little bit too realiant on my husband ( I know this sounds awful but..) she in contact with him daily and somethings it is just obvious to me is an excuse to talk to him. My husband works away aboard sometimes and she was even messaging when he was away on business she been messaging him! Iv told my husband about this and it just turns into a big argument and he says I’m jealous! But I really don’t see why she needs to be in contact with him everyday it’s not like she doesn’t have a family or other friends. Also the day her husband died she was on the phone to my husband and told him that her husband had spoke to her about her meeting someone else why would you say that on the day he died??

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FloEve48 · 15/03/2019 11:00

NoArmaniNoPunani I’m sorry about your husband. ❤️
I really try not to judge people grief affects people differently and you don’t know what goes on in marriages. She can go with who when she wants but just not having my husband.
Thanks x

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Bookworm4 · 15/03/2019 11:09

Do you think the messaging has been going on longer? If her husband has t even been buried I think her texting crap about football is all very odd, surely she has other things to be getting on with?

Stormyday · 15/03/2019 11:24

It sounds as if she is moving in on him.

FloEve48 · 15/03/2019 12:42

Bookworm4 I don’t think so it’s not like my husband has been hiding it from me. I know! She has two little girls you’d think she’d be more concerned about looking after them! X

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Bookworm4 · 15/03/2019 13:05

I'm assuming her DH died in past week and she's messaging inane questions to your husband- a casual friend- it's rather odd behaviour, let the funeral pass then your DH needs to back off and if he plans on blaming you I'd be beyond furious.

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