Nephews and Nieces

[Purplecatshopaholic]

I have split with my husband due to his cheating. There is no way I am putting up with that shit. We have young nephews and nieces on both sides. I always did the card/present buying, and since we split I refuse to do it for his side. Let him do something for a change. Views?

I'd leave his 'side' of family to him. Just make sure you tell him in advance and I'd write out a list of his sides family Birthdays then leave it at that.

Depends if you want to maintain a relationship with them (If you have DC who you'd like to have a good relationship with their cousins for example?) In which case just sign off cards/presents from just you (+DC). If you're not interested in continuing a relationship, sack it off and leave it to him. You certainly shouldn't do it on his behalf!

I haven't split with my husband but decided to leave him to do his enormous family. I did warn them and have stuck to it!

I don’t understand the OP.
It makes no sense

I agree with MinorChef re cousins!

Not your job anymore surely unless you have children who want to give gifts to cousins.

His family = his problem.

@BlueMerchant Why the hell should OP write out the birthdays for his family?!

The only thing you should regret is not doing it sooner.

Or rather, taking on this responsibility in the first place.

Yep, his family, his responsibility. When I split up with my Ex, my Christmas card list and present buying duties were cut down by about three quarters. (bigger family on his side). Result!