Hello, i’ve nc for this post.
Dh and i have not been talking for the last 5 weeks due to an argument we had over money....long story but the not talking is a regular thing with him. Unless i speak to him first he will carry on ignoring me for months on end. When not talking, he does his own cooking, shopping, washing etc. I am at the point of being fed up with it now and feeling very low at the moment.
For the last 2 days i have been suffering with a cold (caught from him) - we sleep in the same bed - he comes to bed around 11pm on a work night and 4am Fri and sat night. So i woke up at 1.30am with a coughing fit and sat on the edge of the bed with my back to him, coughing fit lasted 15 mins with me then taking small breaths to control my breathing again. He must have woken up but instead of asking me if i was ok, he checked his phone to see what the time was.
Its really upset me. I feel so lonely and worthless.