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I am wanting some views on this...as I'm slightly confused. I've been messaging someone on FB but he has a girlfriend. Now I don't understand why he won't friend me back, I've asked but he just doesn't feel the need for it. I do like him but respect the fact that he has a girlfriend. I feel like a secret, that he won't message me if she is about. But he wants to know what I'm up to and does message me first sometimes. I've told him how I felt about him too and he is cool with it

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Seriously?

Go to bed.

What?

cut your losses and move on. am constantly amazed with the shit women put with for 'men'.

You know he has a girlfriend so have some respect for her and yourself and leave the whole situation alone, put yourself in her shoes instead of sulking that he won't friend you on facebook!

Are you 13?

Pathetic.

Hey don't be rude to the OP, she's obviously 🙄 found her soul mate on fb!!!
It's like a Disney love story

If you ‘respected the fact he has a girlfriend’ you wouldn’t be messaging him would you?

OP set the bar higher, you deserve a relationship with someone who doesn’t have a girlfriend.
Have some dignity and self worth.

I'd steer clear of all men for a while if I were you. Learn to be happy on your own- and leave other people's boyfriends alone.

What's wrong with you? Get some therapy. As soon as humanly possible.

How embarrassing for you. Your post makes me cringe. I'm not sure what you are expecting us to say?

The guy won't friend you on Facebook? Well of course he won't, he has a girlfriend. You feel like a secret, he doesn't message you when she's about? Well of course you feel like a secret, you are a secret. Of course he doesn't message you when his girlfriend is about because he doesn't care about you, he speaks to you when he has nothing better to do.

You know he has a girlfriend and are here moaning to us about how you feel, how disgusting.

Block him and forget about it before you cause yourself further embarrassment.

What are you messaging him about? How do you know him? If you're trying to buy a chair off a buying and selling page then messaging is fine. Adding as a friend is many levels of weird.

If you're messaging because you like him then messaging isn't fine and adding him as a friend is still many levels of weird.

If you're actually friends then you would have been Facebook friends before.

You are not just a secret, you're a dirty little secret. Move on.

You're the poster who only a few weeks ago was on here bemoaning your "ex" who was a mummy's boy. You'd only been going on dates with him (after much online chatting) for 4 weeks but you said he was the love of your life and the only man you wanted.

I know he was 23 and you said you were younger.

You sounded about 15 in that one and you don't sound much older here. Someone on the other thread questioned your emotional intelligence and whether you were actually in the right place to have a healthy adult relationship. I agree with them.