There is much backstory to this as I am in the middle of getting divorced and have been in an emotionally abusive marriage for a long time. I finally filed for divorce before Christmas and we are just slogging through it.
Still living under the same roof with our two children (teenagers). This evening I was asleep on the sofa (Crufts wasn’t that exciting) and he called me into the kitchen to establish who had eaten 2 of the mini chocolate bars which were in the fridge - I asked the children and they had.
He then told me to tell them off as he had bought the bars for someone at work and no one should have touched them! I laughed at first and said I wouldn’t and am therefore a wicked selfish c* incapable of disciplining my children.
I followed him upstairs saying that this was s massive over reaction to his teenagers thinking he had bought chocolate for them by mistake. He went mad, pushed me, has taken and hidden my car keys, thrown a glass of water over me and snatched my glasses off and thrown them out of the window. I am shaking. He has just come upstairs and said I am wicked and selfish for what I have done to our family and marriage. It’s all so ridiculous and horrible and I feel very alone.