Was I taken advantage off!!!

[Ashadow88]

Hi there, I just wanted peoples opinion on this situation.
I’ve been dating a guy for the last few months, he is very kind, caring and sweet, and we get along great most of the time.
The only thing that has started to bother me is that on a few occasions when I didn’t feel like having sex, he would continue to still try and take my clothes off and it would take a few times to say no before he would listen, I would actually have to raise my voice in the end.

Also last night we had been out for drinks, but he had only 2 as was driving, I was very much drunk, no fit state at all, to have any kind of intercourse, we were in bed, he then took my underwear off even though I was saying no, then he got on top off me to have sex I literally had to shout him to get off, which he did in the end. He then got annoyed and left...

Anyone thoughts much appreciated. Thanks 🙂

Echoing everyone else, he's a rapey fucker and you are so well rid.

And the bank card! So a thieving rapey fucker.

There is NOTHING kind, caring, sweet or otherwise positive about this rapey fucker! Use this opportunity of him waltzing off in a huff after not getting his way to block him.

Thank you to everyone for all your reply’s!

I haven’t heard from him or texted him myself and I won’t be again 🙂

My ex husband was like this and I accepted it for 16 years (my first long term relationship) it makes me feel sick when I think about it now

Well done for getting rid (and once again, thank goodness for MN)

Ugh, not read whole thread but ened it op. Hope you're ok.

*end sorry

If you haven’t heard from him then good riddance, pity the poor woman he’ll be harassing next.

This is why I finished with my ex in the end.
I had already told him I wasn't happy any more but he persuaded me to go on our upcoming holiday and see if it helped. I stupidly went.
This same thing happened while there. He seemed to brush it off as just being a bit too drunk. I did not. I was seething and 100% going to finish with him when we returned (we were away with his parents I didn't feel able to before we got back!)

I felt really ill during that week we got home. And then I got a positive pregnancy test before I saw him to break up officially, and convinced myself I should stay. But in the end I just couldn't! We are getting on ok at a distance but I don't have any feeling for him what so ever since that night and even while I was trying to convince myself we should stay together I couldn't stand to have him touch me!

You are worth more!