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Leaving while 12 weeks pregnant

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amieeb · 09/03/2019 07:36

So I'm currently 19 and my partner is 21. I have been together since I was 16 and every since all I have wanted is to start a little life with him. So I found out I was pregnant in January (currently 12 weeks) , moved in together in February and here we are now in March and I'm not so sure about him anymore. He just doesn't seem to have any interest in me anymore and any spark that was there before is just gone. He is constantly moaning at me for sleeping all the time and being tired even though he knows it's because of the pregnancy. He tells all his family and friends that I'm lazy and don't want to do anything when I get home from my 9 hour day at work which is true because I can barely keep my eyes open. I can't even defend myself because none of them know about the pregnancy yet. He is just so unsupportive and at a time when he is meant to be supporting me emotionally he is just making things worse. I do love him and I want nothing more than to have a lovely little family with him but right now he is just causing so much upset in my life. I guess the question I am asking is do you guys think I am stupid for wanting to leave him at 12 weeks pregnant and a month after moving in together?

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HK20 · 09/03/2019 07:43

Have a conversation with him.
It's a big change in a relationship when you move in together, and it's a massive change having a child together.

While he's being a massive dick, he's probably as stressed and scared and unsure as you are.

You're going through these big changes all at once, so just check on how he's doing too.
If you're not in love with him anymore, or he's abusive, then absolutely leave him.
But if you think it's just a hurdle you need to jump, stick at it and make it work together.

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