Hey @mindutopia,
Thanks so much for the reply.
I hadn't thought about it in that way. Really good food-for-thought for me to go away and really drill down on.
I held a senior position in the industry I was in and it had drained me so much that I didn't recognise myself (then the redundancy happened) and so I went to work in a less stressful role and that bored me to tears.
Creating this Etsy business has brought me back to life again, and it's inspired me. I want to build on the freedom from a 9-5 and was just open to any ideas to look into and see the potential for upscale or downscale in regards to my time. And because of my upbringing I've seen this lifestyle work.
I grew up in a family business so was used to being around my folks 24-7, literally.
My partner already has a child and I only really want one little bundle of joy.
I haven't drilled down the fine details of childcare, but my partner works from home the half of the time and my family are close at hand. My parents only have one grandchild who is now a moody teenager, lol, and are chomping at the bit for a bouncy little baby to keep their retired hands busy. I actually go to their house where I converted the shed in their garden to my studio, as we didn't have the space for one. And my sister is a stay-at-home-mum of said moody teenager and we are super close, too. So I've got a nice little village there.
My social circle are pretty solid, some have kids so strolls around parks for a catch-up have been a staple diet.
I feel confident to start planning for a child, we have a good couple of years before we take the plunge, I really would just like to use this time to build another thing up to give me some autonomy over my life.
I've got a great personality and I'm pretty adventurous so I'm good at adapting when hell hits - but I know this is right for me.
Adding a baby to the mix, yup, you really don't know what palava that will bring to best made plans, however I got a good support system in place to buffer me, I just really want to give this a shot.
(Just realised this is an absolute essay) lol