My boyfriend of 5 years has told me he's been wanking a lot? He said it's his addiction 🤦♀️ only told me after I found porn and adult sites on his phone fake email just full of porn 😭 he's lied about it for the whole relationship, he said hes done it for years as long as he can remember, I always thought his sex drive was low and it's because of this, he would do it when I'm in the house looking after the kids in the morning before work, I feel like I'm not good enough for him!
I'm not sure what to do, I'm at a lost. We have been arguing over it for nearly 4 weeks now, he said he hasn't done it from the day I found out and I believe him he's so different more awake if that makes sense, wanting to kiss cuddle more have sex more. and he's sorry and he feel bad ect he says he love me but why would he do this? he's got rid of his phone, (. Never asked him to ) and said he will change and I can see he's been trying, helping out more not going straight up to the bathroom when home from work. but I don't trust him, can you rebuild trust,
I know most men wank and that's no the problem! He's lied so much, he done it when I could of done with the help from him but he's been doing! I'm so hurt