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Ex rejected me.

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Richland01 · 08/03/2019 10:00

Good morning all.
A bit of background story.
Me and my ex split up a few weeks ago. It was a mutual thing although as much as I tried to correct the situation it wasn't getting anywhere and the only possible thing We could see was to break. We had been having trouble for a while and I tried and tried to make things right but deep down I think she mentally left a while ago. Which is a shame, but she would never tell me the exact problems. Anyway, when we broke I sent her a written letter telling her that I loved her etc and left it at that. We didn't speak for two weeks, until I text her again asking how she is and asked if there was a chance to make things right. She said at the moment, no. I took that as no.
So I left it be and started to get on with my life, trying not to think about her and tell myself she was gone. At this time I had been offered a new job and she had heard about this and sent me a message asking me out of the blue. She wanted to know about it, congratulated me, where and what it is etc? So I told her and then as soon as she had her info she went again?
I dont understand why she would be so interested after days before she rejected me?

OP posts:
NameChangeNugget · 08/03/2019 12:22

She’s just showing interest

Richland01 · 08/03/2019 14:47

I wish she did when we were together. She was kind enough but wouldn't ask to see me or when we weren't out together she would hardly talk.

OP posts:
richdeniro · 08/03/2019 18:52

They're breadcrumbs because she's feeling guilty about hurting you or perhaps just wants a bit of attention, don't read too much into it.

Likelihood is that there is another guy on the scene I'm afraid who she is interested in.

Don't put any hope into her coming back, you need to go no contact and let the healing process begin - by that I mean delete/block her from phone, social media, etc. You need to move on.

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