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Lucyboo1975 · 08/03/2019 09:06

So I have been with my partner 5 years this year he is 38 I am 43 and we have a two year old son .... when he was in his twenties he went to Thailand and got in a relationship and married a Thai lady (married in Thailand ) .... he says he married her as it was easier than him going back and forth .. so she came to the UK and they lasted 5 years and she left him and moved to London .... it's been 11 years since the split and he sates he wants a divorce .... the thing is she FaceTimes him like last night at 11pm she face time him twice but he didn't pick up ... he messaged her and said just get a divorce and she knows he says this ...... after she FaceTimed him we row because I don't get why she feels comfortable to do that at that time of night , also she has done this before on the middle of the night .... and my partner often stays at his dads and it's always when he comes back she does it ....

It's completed for him to get a divorce as he don't have marriage certificate .. she does and she won't give him .... he would have to go Thailand but she would need to be present also or he could divorce here but would need the certificate so it's no win situation ...

Do I have a right to be annoyed that she FaceTimes him or not

Baring in mind 2 years ago when in bed and very drunk he called me her name

So he set a bit of a seed

Any advice would be helpful on both divorce and FaceTime

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RatRolyPoly · 08/03/2019 13:35

is there a financial imbalance between you and he that means you and your son would benefit from your being married to him?

If not I'd say don't bother with the divorce. No divorce, no need for contact, no FaceTime.

Make sure you see a solicitor about wills and suchlike.

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