He nearly ripped the door off....

[GreenBanana321]

Ok so I grabbed my partners phone (which he's always on) and ran to the bathroom with it. It wasn't serious just playful and to see what would happen. Well he chased after me and pulled really hard on the door to get me to let go of handle on other side. He was obviously desperate for phone back...i said hmmm your obviously hiding something on there he said no you were rude running off with my phone which okay fine but still he would've ripped door off

Really ?

This all sounds very childish.

Yes really

I know it's childish but I'm thinking it's a suspicious reaction

Just read your previous post about him watching porn videos on YouTube constantly..
Don’t know how you can put up with that

It is suspicious. Is he bad tempered in other ways. Or is this a one off.

He's apparently stopped watching the sexy porn type vids on YouTube. I told him I wasn't happy about it and he didn't think it was a big deal but said he wouldn't watch stuff like that any more but he's lied about stuff like that before

I guess it’s up to you what you’re willing to put up with
Do you work or are you financially dependent on him ?

I work but only part time because of the kids

Dump.

What’s your housing set up?

It wasn’t playful though was it? You were testing him to see what his reaction was.
How long have you been together? Any kids?

You were not playing. You were testing him like another poster had said.

I’d be pissed off of my partner did that to me.

Well whatever he was hiding on that phone he has now deleted!!
And he will be more careful from now on.

It wasnt playful at all. You wanted to see what was on it.

It would have fucked me off too. My phone is mine and its private. If you dont trust him, that's fine. Dump him.

Doing this and then saying 'I was only being playful' is bullshit.

Yeah I'm another that couldn't be bothered with childish behaviour

If I thought my DP was that immature they couldn't have a proper conversation is be looking for the door

Plus it's irritating when people think this stuff is playful, my phone is my work as well as my private property

I haven't seen your other thread but if he is being a dick then discuss it with him set boundaries or leave don't pull childish stuff like this

If a man had done exactly what you are doing it would rightly be considered abusive. What right do you think you have to run off with another person's phone? And of course it wasn't 'playful'

Give over it wasn't playful at all

It wasn't playful you don't trust him, his reaction tells you that you're right not to.

Not a great deal more anyone can tell you, except you're wasting your time together

If you're gonna post on here at least be honest about what YOU did. You suspected he had something one his phone that he wouldn't want you to see.