I am married. He is married. We work together in the same organisation, but actually work together closely on a project one day a week. We text throughout the day, at evenings and weekends. We share the same sense of humour and make each other laugh. I will often show my dh his texts and he does the same with his wife. There has never ever been anything flirty or inappropriate in our texting or in person. If dh saw my phone there would be nothing there to cause alarm, apart from possibly the sheer volume of texts.
The reason l am asking is because yesterday he didnt text me for quite a few hours, and l was aware l felt really miffed, and then really happy when he finally got in contact. My friends think this might be headed into dangerous territory.....l dont think so, but l thought l would canvas opinion. My friend asked if l fancied him, and l had to stop and think....l dont know what else, if anything, l feel for him apart from friendship.
As a disclaimer, l should add that l 9nly have female friends really, and have no other male friendships with which to guage this by