Hi I never posted on anything like this. But I am desperate for some advice from someone whos been through this.
Ive been with my partner for 5 years(5 years of walking on egg shells due to his anger issues)we have 2 kids ages 3&5. My partner rarely gets involved with them. No walks in the park or quality time, no help. He became also heavy cannabis user over the last year, i have never smoked.He has been verbally, financially, emotionally and every few months physically abusive. I tried to leave and have sensible talks with him but all i got was threats that i will never see the kids, that he will tell socials that I abuse kids and so on. Last one was that he will kill me and bury in the back garden if i leave. I finaly got the courage and strenght to leave. Got my self a flat and planning to move out with the kids next week when he is at work. I am absolutely terrified of whats gona happen when he finds out and need to hear that some of you people been there. And how did you cope with the fear.