I have just found a photo of my boyfriend kissing a man

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On a night out. Uploaded to the Facebook page of the club, taken from the side behind them, they aren’t aware of photo being taken.

I’m shaking, tearful, feel like this can’t be happening.

I know this is a club he visits frequently as he worked there at one point. The night the photo is from, I was meant to be meeting him but something came up.

I only looked on the page because I’ve been having suspicions he is cheating and my gut told me something was wrong. But with no evidence I didn’t know what to do. I didn’t fucking expect to find a photo of him kissing a man. It was New Years too. And he wanted us to have a baby this year.

We have been arguing (mainly over my cheating suspicions) and haven’t spoken today. I slept with him several hours after this photo was taken (unprotected) and have many times since. Now I’m panicking he might have given me something too.

Sorry if this post is jumbled I’m in shock. What do I do?

The relationship would be over for me. I'm not even sure I'd be bothered to tell him why. Perhaps just telling him the relationship isn't working for you.

I would screenshot the photo though...in case of denials at a later stage if I decided to tell him.

If you are living together I'd look into the practicalities of separating.

Have you spoken to him?

Don't have unprotected sex with a man you don't trust (You say you suspected cheating before the senior photo incident?)

Time to move on OP. The dishonesty behind this situation and the fact that you had suspicions anyway is enough. I would tell him it’s over and send him the picture then cut all ties.

You tell him the relationship is over.
You already suspected he was cheating. Now you have proof.
Awful for you but you deserve better than this.

Its probably not want you want to hear, but personally I would be checking out online dating apps.

That would be game over for me. No point to even try to play detective. You've already got all the proof you need. Wouldn't be the first gay/bi man in the closet.

I ve seen some straight men kiss other men as a laugh or for attention, it’s rugby club type humour. I would nt dump him over this alone.