So I have been in a new relationship for the last 8 months after previously being with someone for 10 years, my previous partner was a cheat, a liar , a drunk and a narcissist.( the list goes on) lol any hows I met the absolute most amazing man and he is perfect for me, kind, caring, funny has the same interests as me and also Amazing in bed ( that is an understatement). So I have recently just found out that the first few weeks he was seeing/ sleeping with a woman for a whole week. This is where it gets confusing. He's the same age as me ,30, he has never had a serious long term relationship apart from one lasting 3 years. He's a very good looking chap so obviously he has played the field a little. So this woman that he was seeing was from Italy. They didn't know each other and he said that she had seen him in a photo with one of his friends and that she accidentally added him as a friend on face book, he accepted the request. From then on they messaged back an fourth and eventually he flew to Italy to stay with her for a week. Bearing in mind they had only know of each other for a month. So the following month she flew over here to stay with him. The same time we had met and were dating. I have no issue with the fact that he was sleeping/ seeing her at the same time as me as technically we were both single, but lying to me for a whole week as to his where abouts makes me so cross. So we are currently on a 'break' am I over reacting? He said he didn't tell me as he didn't want to ruin what we had and that he had no idea I would actually be the one for him. He has called me his soulmate and he can't stand to lose me. He knows what he did was wrong. Can I trust him again? During the relationship I have had no reason not too. I actually believe he could be the one for me but due to past relationship dramas I am on high alert. And I do the this thing where if I want to find something out I will go to any length to find the answer even if knowing it's going to upset me, but I can't let things lie and just move on? He has also met another lady from Australia with whom he hadn't me personally, this was before me, but still. Flying around the world just for a hook up, I'm not sure if I'm wasting my time. But I really do like/ love him a lot and he is perfect for me.......
Advice please x